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Author:  momma to3 boys [ Tue Sep 04, 2007 3:20 pm ]
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I HAVE TO GO TO PLAN HIS YEAR BOOK PAGE IM MAKING,IT HURTS ME SO MUCH.CHRIS WOULD BE SO PROUD OF MATT.I CANT BELIEVE CHRIS IS NOT HERE TO SEE MATT IN HIS SENIOR YEAR.ITS SO HARD TO BE A MOM LIKE I WAS.I FIND MYSELF SOMETIMES WANTING TO JUST GIVE UP.

Author:  Barbara [ Tue Sep 04, 2007 4:51 pm ]
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I'm so sorry for what your going through, this would have been Michaels senior year
also and its so very hard knowing I won't be able to see him graduate.
His yearbook memorial was in his junior year, at the last minute, but I.m told by all the members of his class they plan to do something in this years book for him because they still want his memory to be a part of graduation.That brought me to tears.
Anyway you'll be in my prayers and I,m here for you.
Lots of Hugs,
Barbara

Author:  Lynda [ Tue Sep 04, 2007 10:00 pm ]
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Dear Carla,
I am so so so sorry! I can't help but think that Chris IS proud of Matt, even from heaven. We are told that when we get to heaven, we will recognize each other. Chris knows who his brother is and he can feel every ounce of love that you will put into making this page special. I will be praying for you to have the strength to see this project through. If you need to, talk to us as you put it together. I know it helps me to talk, talk, talk.
Hugs,
Lynda

Author:  Lynda [ Tue Sep 04, 2007 10:05 pm ]
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Dear Barbara,
HUGS to you!!!! I can not even think of what I will be like in the year 2012, Garion's graduating year. My heart goes out to you. This really is not the order of how things should be. Keeping you in my prayers and know that we will be here for you as that time draws near.
Hugs,
Lynda

Author:  momma to3 boys [ Wed Sep 05, 2007 10:53 am ]
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thank you ladies,matt decided today for his senior pictures to wear chris,s jersey in memory of chris.i am sorry to be so needy,i feel i dont lite candles for your children ,i feel all i do is cry still every day.today as my sons drove off to school i got this horrible feeling what if something happens to them.every day seems harder for me.

Author:  Cindy [ Wed Sep 05, 2007 11:04 am ]
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Carla, I'm sorry I didn't answer your post yesterday. I did pray for you. I'm sorry it just seems to get worse. You're not being needy. You're just missing Chris. You can lean on us anytime you need to. Don't worry about the candles. They aren't going to go out.
I think it's so special that your Matt wants to wear Chris' jersey. I know Chris is honored. I know it's hard to watch our other children drive away...we're Mom's and I guess we will always worry. That part has gotten a little easier. I think it's so hard for so long for us all because we're so afraid something is going to happen to someone else we love so much. Somehow we just have to keep putting them in the Lords hands and doing our best to trust Him to take care of them. I know it's easier said than done...believe me I know.
I'm lifting you up in prayer.
{{{Hugs}}} Cindy

Author:  momma to3 boys [ Wed Sep 05, 2007 11:18 am ]
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cindy and tammy,thank you.i really dont know how to do this life without chris.but i guess i will have to try.

Author:  Cindy [ Wed Sep 05, 2007 11:59 am ]
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Carla, that's where the Lord steps in. He keeps us taking our next breathe and keeps our hearts beating. Sometimes that's all we have...but it's enough. With time we learn, it's still too soon for you. Just rest and know you're loved...
Love, Cindy

Author:  Tonya [ Wed Sep 05, 2007 12:46 pm ]
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Carla....all in due time. For now, just rest and grieve the only way you know how; leave the rest up to God. He will bring you through this. Know that we are all here for you. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

Author:  Lynda [ Wed Sep 05, 2007 8:10 pm ]
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Dear Carla,
We are here to cry with you my dear friend. Please do not worry about the candles. I love what Cindy said "Don't worry about the candles. They aren't going to go out." Also know that we are not going anywhere.
I am going to sign off of these forums for now so I can go and have a long talk with God. I will never understand why any of us are having to go through what we are, but I will continue to take my questions to Him.
I wish we were closer to give you the hugs you need right now.
Hugs,
Lynda

Author:  Cindy [ Thu Sep 06, 2007 1:47 am ]
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Carla, I was just sitting here thinking about you tonight and wanted to come and send

you one more
{{{Hug}}}

Praying for you always, Cindy

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