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 Post subject: Re: New member
PostPosted: Fri Jun 10, 2011 5:52 am 
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Hello ! Im Nick Berg from USA , and Im 23 years old . Hope thats okay

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 Post subject: Re: New member
PostPosted: Sun Jun 12, 2011 10:28 pm 
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Stephen,
I too am a new member, though the beginning of my experience precedes yours by nearly two years. My Alyson left this place, where time is relevant, on 11 June 2009. In some ways, I also entered that eternal plane without time. Everyday is yesterday, that day--the last day. Sometimes it is down to the last time I saw her smile or heard her speak. Driving to work, glimpsing th sky, feeling the wind, anytime, anyplace the sense of loss is there, just as it was the first time I heard "Mama, Aly's gone." Just as it was when I typed the quote, the hole is in my chest, and the tears sting my eyes.

Perhaps, I have not decided, it is a measure of God's loving kindness that for grieving parents time stops in relation to our child and the separation, permitting us a glimpse of our child's eternity--the same today, tomorrow, abut not forever. We too will find that plane of perpetual, endless reunion. I cannot imagine ther regret if I lost the ability to feel the hollowness in my chest, or the sting of tears that threaten to fall. I fear the guilt of forgetting would overwhelm.
I have the vicarious experience of my father when my brother was murdered; and of my grandmother, who lived with the loss of 4 of her 7 daughters: they lived; they laughed; they cried;they never moved beyond their loss..
I commend you for not relapsing. I am a social worker, and am aware of the struggle of recovery. Your Kate is very pleased, and what a blessing for your younger daughter.
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 Post subject: Re: New member
PostPosted: Thu Aug 18, 2011 7:39 am 
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I just want to say that Namid explained it so clearly. My experiences are very close to what you said. I never got over my loss buy I learned to cope. I finally found happiness again after 6 years. But I still have my moments. Looking back I see how I was destroying myself trying to deal with my loss. I made bad decisions and I refused help from others. I wish I could go back but I can't. Thanks Namid.

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