I wish I knew where I was. Some days I think I'm doing pretty good actually. And then I realize that I'm really in denial. Laura never lived here so it's easy to just "forget". One of the reasons I decided not to return to work is because I would be faced with constantly being reminded of her. We used to work together. My work friends are her work friends. I just can't face it. I know she is gone in my head. My heart is having a harder time with it. For days after she died I slept with her nightie by my face, I just wanted to smell her scent. It comforted me. Now I'm back home and she is 8 weeks gone. I keep trying to be strong for her 20 yr old who is now living with me. But, oh when he cries and says he's having a hard day, I want to make it better for him and I can't even help myself. I get up and do what I need to do. But, I lose track of things. I have a hard time concentrating. I try to watch TV or read and find my mind wandering. Lately I've been spending too much money. Mostly buying things for my other kids and grandchildren. I have it to spend right now but realize that I have to reign it in. I call it shopping therapy. So, QVC and E-Bay not to mention Wet Seal for my granddaughter have been getting alot of business from me lately. It makes them happy and so it makes me happy. Sort of. Oh well, I will get through this. But, I'm getting the picture that this is all a process. One step forward and 2 steps back. I Love you women and I thank you for being here for me as I stumble through this process.
Lucy
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Lucy Carter
http://laura-dawn.last-memories.comIn loving memory of, Laura Dawn 2/26/68-7/19/07, my first born child, my daughter, my friend.
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In loving memory of, Myron H. (Ozzie) Osborne 8/22/22-3/29/89, My dad, my teacher, my hero.
Megan, Heather, Andrew,( Laura ), Mary, Jim, Russell