Fifth Day/Open Discussion

Tanya · **Posted:** Mon Sep 17, 2007 9:44 am

Tammy I am so with you on this. I can't and won't accept that Naudya Jo is gone, yes different situations, but same heartache.

I will not accept the loss until I am called upon to be with her forever in heaven.

Susan · **Posted:** Mon Sep 17, 2007 10:11 am

I'm with you Tammy, I'll never "accept" Clint's death. Just not going to happen. It's hard for me to believe that any grieving parent ever really experiences this particular stage of grief.

Love,
Susan

Tonya · **Posted:** Mon Sep 17, 2007 11:21 am

Whew....this is a tough one for me. Some days I think that I have accepted the loss of my boys, but then the next day, I just can't understand why they're gone. I mean, I know that God had a reason for taking them....what that reason is, I have yet to learn. I will NEVER get over the fact of losing them, not in a million years. I know that they are in a better place, and that they have many, many Angel friends looking after them. But that does not make them not being here any easier.

Cindy · **Posted:** Mon Sep 17, 2007 12:08 pm

Man it's plain to see I'm just a confused person! I answered this post on the day 4 one! I can't even read and understand straight! I give up...
Cindy

Barbara · **Posted:** Mon Sep 17, 2007 8:35 pm

I don't think you ever really accept it we only learn to cope.I know I will never accept Michael being gone.Its been 23 yrs since my Scott passed and I've never really accepted
that.Time just gos on and I try to exist with out my sons.
Love,
Barbara

Drea · **Posted:** Mon Sep 17, 2007 9:10 pm

I don't think I've accepted anything. My uncle lived three hours south from me so I didn't see him everyday. Laura moved to Kansas, so right now it just feels like she's living across the country. It's hard to imagine if I wanted to call her she wouldn't answer. I can't believe it's true.

Laura wanted to see our children. She wanted to be an aunt all over again. She used to let me push Zack in the stroller and since he looked exactly like Andy he looked like our son.She knew our kids would look like hers. She was excited to see them, and I can't believe she'll never meet them... and they will never meet their Aunt Laura.

Lynda · **Posted:** Mon Sep 17, 2007 9:34 pm

Dear Cindy,
Please don't give up, we haven't! And like Tammy said, there is no right or wrong place to post what is on your heart. If that were the rules, I have failed miserably. Keep talking, no matter where, and I will do the same

Dear Tammy,
I understand that Garion will no longer walk through my doors, but I am not ok with it, nor will I ever accept what has happened to my family as being OK. Never! I miss my Garion so terribly much and I will always want him at home with us.
Hugs,
Lynda

Jo Ann · **Posted:** Mon Sep 17, 2007 10:13 pm

There are 2 words that really bother me when anyone talks about grief - one is acceptance and the other is closure. I will NEVER approve in an accepting way that Krystal died so young and was cheated out of raising her 1 year old twins. I know she died, and that is reality, but i do not approve. I will NEVER have closure with Krystal's death. I will love her and miss her as long as i live. Closure is for bank accounts. Closure is not for love. Our love for our child(ren) is eternal. Love outlasts death.

Barbara · **Posted:** Tue Sep 18, 2007 2:47 pm

Dear JoAnn,
You're so very right.There is no closure.

Sending you HUGS,
Barbara

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