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Author:  JANE_E [ Sat Oct 27, 2007 1:06 pm ]
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Ok,

It doesn't matter anymore if we believe in "signs" or not............. but now I can't ever doubt them again.

Last night we picked up all three of Scott's kids and one of their best friends, Jamie. They've become so close and Jamie's mother is one of our dearest friends.

Last night after I went to dinner I had to take my friend home from the restaurant. She lives about 10-12 miles up on top of Columbia Heights......... It's a dark, windy road and a little scary at night. But I suddenly KNEW that Scott was in the car with me. So, I started talking to him. I told him about the kids coming for last night and today.......... and I knew he was in the car with me. I FELT HIS PRESENCE so strongly.

So, last night, after everyone was settled in, not in bed........these are three teenage boys....... they don't go to bed very early. I fell asleep on the sofa and suddenly the smoke alarm goes off, 1, 2, 3............. I couldn't figure it out at first because I was so tired. It kept up until I finally said, "Thank you Scott, We know you're with us". It stopped.

Just now, this morning, we're all here in the office again, the kids are all playing "Guild Wars" on the computer and low and behold, the smoke alarm in here goes off again. This is the same one that Frank kept changing the batteries in last weekend. New battery, not more than a week old and they should last a year. I have no fans on, no candles burning, nothing on the stove and no-one even moving around much because every one is on the computer. It starts beeping, one, two three beeps............. I told the kids just to acknowledge his presence but they feel foolish doing it.

Frank just took it off the ceiling and took the battery out of it. I don't know how he expects Scott to let us know when he's here if he keeps taking down the alarms.

Do I believe it's Scott? ABSOLUTELY, I have no doubt, no questions in my heart. He's here but needs to be acknowledged so we know his spirit is present.

Yes, God is good, he has not abandoned us. He lets our angels come to our side when they want to or when we need them.

It makes my soul rejoice,
jane

Author:  JANE_E [ Sat Oct 27, 2007 3:09 pm ]
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Thank you Tammy,

I know that our loved one's spirits try so hard to let us know they're with us and they have to find a way. I never, ever doubt, not even for an instant, that Scott is here with us..... and once we acknowledge that he's here, he stops making the alarms go off. Everyone, Frank, the kids , even Jamie, their friend saw how it worked last night. Jamie said "it's spooky man" but I told him that no, it' isn't. Scot has to work very hard to get his energy level to the point where he can make the alarms go off. Their energy level is so very much higher than ours.

He just needs to be told that he's connected with us and then he's happy, just being here. It's sad that this greatest gift that God has given us, isn't believed by so many people. It's God's way of keeping the connection open for us, we just have to believe and be open to it.

Thank you Tammy, I love you,
jane

Author:  Barbara [ Sat Oct 27, 2007 3:50 pm ]
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[color=blue]Jane,
I believe it is Scott letting you know he there too.I am so glad Scotts presence is around you and your family to let you know hes ok and send you some comfort.

Love and Hugs,
Barbara[/color



]Tammy,
I love the Fire Alarm going off on ring day!!! I'm glad Angelica was their with you on that special day.
Love and Hugs,
Barbara

Author:  Tonya [ Sat Oct 27, 2007 10:43 pm ]
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Jane.....

HOW WONDERFUL!!!!!! I'm so glad that that Scott has visited you once again.

I love you my dear friend!!

Sending many hugs....
~Tonya~

Author:  Cindy [ Sun Oct 28, 2007 1:10 am ]
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Jane, I think this is cool. You know I've told you before about my door bell ringing until someone would go to the door and tell B.J. to come in. People has thought that was creepy too but I don't care. It's been a long time since it has happened, I wish it would again.
I also wanted to say I remember tomorrow the (28th) is a hard day for you and I want you to know I'm praying for you. If I got the date wrong in this mixed up head of mine please know I meant well.
Love you, Cindy

Author:  JANE_E [ Sun Oct 28, 2007 1:10 pm ]
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Cindy,
Scott was buried on the 27th of October. But, my dear, dear friend, the 28th was a horrible, horrible day also. The day after the funeral and everyone goes back to their normal lives and we're left to try to make sense out of the nightmare we believe we've just had.
Scott was born on a Friday, passed away on a Friday and was buried on a Friday. I don't know what that means, but it's an interesting little thing to me.

I appreciate so much you remembering at all. You're such a special person to me. I love you.

btw.......... grandpa (My husband Frank) got up this morning with the kids and took the dogs outside for me. I slept in and I dreamed about Scott this morning. I'm not sure what the dream was about, but it was definitely about Scott and it was soothing to me because I woke up feeling ok, without that first moment of sickness and realization.

Love,
jane

Author:  Jo Ann [ Sun Oct 28, 2007 1:43 pm ]
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OhJane,
I am so happy for you that Scott is giving you signs. And I am happy for Tammy that Angelica gave her and the whole student body signs at the ring ceremony.
Love to you both,

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