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Author:  Sarah Beth [ Sun Nov 11, 2007 11:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Why????

Why do people have to go through the day, wondering how come God took that one special person away from you?
Why do people think you need to be over it when it's only really just begun?
Why are people so judge mental?
Why do people say the things that say when they know it hurts us?
Why?
Why?
Why did it happen to us?

Author:  Sarah Beth [ Sun Nov 11, 2007 11:45 pm ]
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Thank you Tammy. It is hard and I too want the answers to the questions. But, even if they won't matter when we are in Heaven, I wish we could know them now! It would make life a bit more understanding. I wouldn't make it easier but it could give us more understanding.
I love yall and I hope to come here more, it truly is a place of safety, where it's OK to say what you really feel. And, if someone has a problem with it, they can get over it cause this place was made for us to express grief, not get made fun of because of how we feel. Thank you.
Much Love,
☼Sarah☼

Author:  Cindy [ Mon Nov 12, 2007 12:07 am ]
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That's my girl! :wink: See-Tee, I know it's so hard and Mama's so sorry. You know I would take all the pain away from you if I could. I love you and I'll always pray for you.
Love you bunches, Mama

Author:  Barbara [ Mon Nov 12, 2007 12:03 pm ]
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Sarah Beth,
Why?? Is a question we all ask ourselves everyday.I don't Why I guess they just don't understand.We are all here for each other and for you anytime you need us.Know one will judge or tell you to get over it.You can't just get over a loss of a loved one like some think you should.The grief is forever in our lives and nothing is ever the same.
You will always be safe here and you will always be in my heart.
I love you many,many (((((HUGS))))
Barbara

Author:  Cece [ Mon Nov 12, 2007 12:41 pm ]
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Sarah, I ask myself those very same questions all the time. I will never figure out why God saw fit to take a young woman and leave her children to be raised by relatives. Will the 9 year old remember her? I try to remember how much I remember of my mother from that age and only a few memories stand out. How do I make sure that they will remember my daughter? I try to talk to them about her and memories I have of her just to keep there own memories alive. But, it is painful for me and I don't know if it will work. I can only pray so. No one in this forum will ever, ever tell you to "get over it". We all love you Sarah.

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