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I have decided that in my 10 years or so of dinking around on the Internet and the 7 years I have been in different bereavement or grief forums, message boards and chat rooms you people are the creme of the crop , I have never had the kind of experience that ya'll talk about in that post about a different site,, and truthfully I can't say I have ever had a 'bad' experience I have been on sites that had one person being judge mental or opinionated towards others but what you guys was saying about someone going on your memory pages and intentionally desecrating and disrespecting the grief and memories of the pages brings to mind the way dogs will attack a dog that has been run over and is in pain . Now there was a woman that I worked with at the time of my daughters death that reminded me of those attacking dogs, the car that my daughter was driving was a 1995 red ford escort,, I went back to work 30 days after her death and the morning cook and server seemed to take it personal that I was back working so soon, I tried to explaine how sitting at home alone in the house I raised her in
where every turn of my head there was a memory of Verna doing something right there on that spot every where I looked in the house ,yard, barn or pasture was over flowing with Vernas memory and there fore a great emptness came from that 'over flow',,
one morning when that cook wlked in and was just full of sunshine and goodwill she asked me , hey kat did I tell you what I seen on my way to work ? a little red car that flipped and flipped and flipped,, my daughters car flipped end over end 2 1/2 tmies but she was thrown out on the first flip,,,I just stood there unable to except the fact of what my ears were hearing, it was like a strong band of steel was wrapped round my very exsistamce she walked away laughing like she had just shared a wonderful bit of sunshine ,, I took my apron off went to the time clock wrote on a sticky note "this is my notice,you will notice I am no longer here " I clocked out, stuck that sticky note on the day mangnagers time card and left, reading your posts about that other site brang her to mind and she brang the dogs to mind ,,, my therapest said that there are people in this world that have so much pain and anger buried inside that being ugly and crule is the only thing they understand ,,now I'm not chicken of a fight or a stranger to standing up for myself or my kids when corned I can be scared enough to hurt the person between me and the door if ya know what I mean but that (4 letter word ) cook that morning just was not important enough to me to be given the right to be dumping her 'sunshine' on my broken heart,,well darn it ,, I guess I start talking and can't shut up in these posts,,,
I started out in this post to say how much feelings and consideration you folks share and show for each other and everyone that wanders in and how comforting it is to be allowed to see ,, espesally after what you all experenced on that other site and Tammy that littel post script in my post thnking you for the candel was before I found that beautiful candle you mentiond I copy and will paste it on her page with cudos to you for all my family and friends to share,,THANK YOU SO Much , its people like you in this world that counter act ,, people like them others (4 letter word) that did that on that other site or cooks,, ( the 4 letter word starts with a ("D" )
now a question please to clear up my mis understanding about the post titled web graphics or beautiful graphics , I sent those Photos to your address thinking I was requisting something like the really nice photo graphic on some of signatures in your posts,, the question ? So how do I up load a photo or two in here to show on my posts ?
a link to a 'how to ' page would be great,,
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